Betty Smithโs 1943 classic A Tree Grows in Brooklyn opens with eleven-year-old Francie Nolan lugging a sack of scrap metal and rags to the neighborhood junk dealer. The payoutโpennies, never nickelsโgoes straight into the tin-can bank…
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Welcome to Ask Mike, a regular column on our blog where I give a friendly, but opinionated answer to reader questions. Today, Iโll be answering the following question: โWhatโs the Difference Between Rest and…
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In October 1915, Ernest Shackleton stood on the buckled deck of theย Enduranceย as Antarctic ice crushed it into splinters. Stranded with twenty-seven men and no hope of rescue, he imposed a regimen so ordinary it…
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Benjamin Franklin began each dawn not with an invention, a speech, or a diplomatic cable, but with a blank page and six words: โWhat good shall I do today?โ He was twenty-four, running a…
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In the winter of 1922, an unknown Ernest Hemingway sat in a rented garret near the Rue Mouffetard, staring at a handful of small French coins. Cafรฉ breakfasts were off-limits; there was barely enough…
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Reaching mental inbox zero begins with admitting that the mind was never designed to be a filing cabinet.ย Treating every passing notion as something to house, categorize, or color-code turns consciousness into a claustrophobic office…
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All of life is one big tradeoff, or thatโs the way it feels sometimes. When we choose to focus our energy and resources on one thing, itโs usually at the expense of another good…
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Note: This is a guest post by Chris Loper ofย Becoming Better Ten years ago, Iโd finally had enough. After nearly 12 years of constant marijuana use and occasional binge drinking, something finally clicked in…
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In every gathering where name-tags are worn, thereโs a secret contest under way: who can escape first to the buffet without revealing that they spent the last ninety seconds carefully managing the direction of…
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Our days race by with one-click purchases, instant replies, and algorithms that guess our desires before we can name them. Convenience is up; texture is down. Richard Weaver and the Southern Agrarians called that…
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There is always a temptation to picture historyโs paragons as super-humans who woke each dawn infused with destiny. In fact, their mornings looked disarmingly ordinaryโsave for a handful of small, stubborn rituals that reframed…
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There are a million different opinions on setting goals. Iโm going to share the one method that finally worked for me after years of trial and error. If I had to pinpoint a single…