One of the biggest lies I’ve believed is that having more would finally satisfy me. More money, more stuff, more travel—every single time I thought more was the answer, it turned out not to…
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I remember the feeling of being halfway through a cross-country race, already mentally exhausted and feeling the burn in every part of my body. The thought of slowing down and coasting through the rest…
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Making friends came so easily for me in high school, college, and even during the early years of my marriage. But then, after having kids, I noticed something had changed. I wasn’t adding new…
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If I know habits are so good for me, why don’t I just do them? That’s a question I ask myself all the time. After writing dozens of posts on this topic from every…
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I have a funny way of knowing whether things are going well in my life—whether I’m flossing my teeth on a daily basis. I know it sounds strange, but for some reason, if everything…
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You might think I’m writing this post as a takedown of all the fake minimalism I see around me. I wish that were the case. Unfortunately, phony minimalism is a trap I’ve fallen into…
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I know what it’s like to dream about a better version of yourself—the kind of person who feels confident, accomplished, and in control. I’ve spent plenty of time imagining what life could look like…
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If I had a genie who could grant me just one wish (yes, I know genies are supposed to give three, but let’s say this one is stingy), I wouldn’t wish for riches, fame,…
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I don’t know if anyone ever feels truly qualified to give parenting advice, but my wife and I do have four kids—ranging in age from 9 down to 2. While we can’t yet speak…
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It’s the oldest mirage known to man—success. And I have to admit, I’ve fallen for its vague promises of a better life more than once. There’s something about success that feels like it will…
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I don’t know about you, but I’m tired of accepting excuses from myself. Not the real ones—like being sick or stepping away for important family matters. Those are valid and deserve grace. I’m talking…
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All-or-nothing thinking has been one of my worst habits. If I mess up—even a little—I’m tempted to scrap everything and wait until I feel completely ready to start over. The result? I end up…
